Chapter 49
Chapter 49
Ever since she found out about her son's relationship with Xie Fenghua, Rong Meiling couldn't find anyone to confide in, and she was so depressed that she was going crazy.In the afternoon, Shuman and Rong Meiling had a brief chat.And this just fit Rong Meiling's mind. Shuman grew up watching Yin Nan, and since she had heard Yin Rui talk about it, Rong Meiling told her a lot without hesitation.
To Rong Meiling's surprise, Shuman had much more views and understanding on this matter than she did.Shuman told her that things like sexual orientation cannot be changed by forcing Yin Nan.Shuman asked her if she hated homosexuality, and Rong Meiling shook her head.She doesn't hate the gay community, but she can't say she likes it, she just can't accept that her son is gay.
Shuman understands Rong Meiling, she is just rejecting it out of instinct, and the traditional thinking in her bones tells Rong Meiling that this is an unethical thing, so she cannot accept and approve Yin Nan's sexual orientation.
"Homosexuality is not a disease, they are normal people, Xiao Nan did nothing wrong." Shuman said.
Rong Meiling is a college graduate. When Shuman expressed her opinion, Rong Meiling did not argue with her, but chose to listen first.
"I saw this sentence in a book. It used to be men who decided whether women should be educated, and white people who decided whether black people could live. Later we all thought this was absurd, but now we let the opposite sex Love is used to determine whether homosexuals can love each other. In our sexual culture, reproduction is regarded as the purpose, ignorance as purity, ignorance as the way, and prejudice as the principle..." Shuman smiled and tucked the broken hair on his temples Behind the ears, she gently held Rong Meiling's hand, and spoke softly.
"Xiao Nan just recognized her sexual orientation and fell in love with a man. He is not promiscuous, loyal to his partner, and clean. In my opinion, some heterosexuals may not be as good as him. Although in some people's eyes, This is not allowed. For the homosexual group, the state does not support it, and the society does not accept it, but Xiao Nan has done nothing wrong. As a family member, how can we put pressure on him.”
How many children fell out because they came out with their families.The family members cried, made trouble, hanged themselves, and even sent their children to a mental hospital.There are also people who have severed ties with their families since then, and only a very small number of people have received support.Rong Meiling opened her mouth, but was speechless.She knows, she knows all of this.It’s just that at the time he listened to it and gave up. He didn’t even think about it in his heart. Now that this happened to his son, if his family didn’t support him, would Yin Nan choose to sever ties with his family or would he choose to compromise?
Although Shuman's words are very reasonable, Rong Meiling also has her own persistence. "Xiao Nan was only led astray by that Xie Fenghua. He had a girlfriend at the beginning. He should still be heterosexual. He can marry a woman, form a happy family of his own, and have a few lovely children."
"Have you ever thought about such a thing? Let Xiao Nan find a random woman to marry, as long as she gives birth to a child, and then he can do whatever he wants." Shuman asked.
"What! How come!!" Rong Meiling retorted immediately as if she had been poked by Shuman.
Shuman looked at Rong Meiling, and asked seriously: "Is there really no one?"
"..." The room fell into silence. Rong Meiling lowered her head, hesitated for a moment, and said, "I never thought about it that way, but I think that as long as he gets married and has his own wife and son, he will know whether it's better or not. Hello woman..."
"But what if he still insists on his choice? Although Yin Nan is a responsible man, he will not give up his family easily, but if he insists on being with someone he doesn't like, how can he have a happy life. When the time comes, What about the woman who married him? What about the child?" Shuman knew that Rong Meiling would definitely think so.She sighed heavily, and said lightly: "Which woman is willing to marry a husband who likes men? Even if Yin Nan is willing to marry, it must be a marriage based on lies. If Xiao Nan is true after marriage It's fine if he changes, but if he doesn't change, then it's a fraudulent marriage."
"Sister-in-law... We all understand how important a harmonious family and a lifetime of happiness are to women. We are all women, and we can really open our eyes and watch the woman who will marry Xiao Nan jump into the fire pit ?"
Later, Shuman talked with Rong Meiling a lot, about Yin Nan, about the family, about children... Shuman's tone was very soft, and Rong Meiling gradually regained her calm.She thought about it rationally, and she did look at homosexuality with colored glasses. In fact, what Yin Nan did to reconcile Fenghua may not be as unbearable as she imagined.Rong Meiling could try to accept it, but before that, she still decided to persuade Yin Nan again.
Rong Meiling talked with Yin Nan in his bedroom, but unfortunately, Yin Nan's answer was no.Her son has a firm attitude. He will not deliberately destroy the harmony of the family, but he will not give up easily. He will definitely make his family accept Xie Fenghua.
Xie Fenghua could hear Yin Nan's conversation with his mother clearly.At the end of the conversation, Rong Meiling didn't say whether she could accept Xie Fenghua or not, she just answered vaguely and left.
Listening to the sound of Rong Meiling's footsteps gradually moving away, Xie Fenghua changed back into a human form.Lie on Yin Nan's back and put his arms around his shoulders, comforting him softly: "Don't worry, we can do it. All they need is time..."
That's obviously what he wanted to comfort Xie Fenghua.Yin Nan laughed, he took the little ancestor who secretly changed back into a human form behind him to his body, reached out and nodded his nose and asked with a smile: "Why did you say everything I should say?"
"Hmph, this is called wit, don't you feel that your heart is particularly warm?" The little ancestor raised his tail proudly, and said with air.
"Yes, yes, it's very warm."
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Yin Nan just kept reconciling with Xie Xiaomiao downstairs watching the Spring Festival Gala on the sofa in the living room. Zhang Yan couldn't stand the fact that the group of relatives always made a point about when she was looking for a date, and hid.As for Yin Minghui, he found that there were not many people downstairs, and the place to play was more spacious than upstairs, so he immediately slipped down with his children's team.
When the adults realized that the child was missing, they realized that they had gathered in a small group downstairs, playing around the living room.
It wasn't until after ten o'clock in the evening that the dumplings that had been made a long time ago were finally put into the pot and boiled.According to the custom in the Northeast, money dumplings are made on the night of the New Year's Eve. Whoever eats the money dumplings will make a lot of money in the new year.
Due to the large number of people, Rong Meiling prepared eight dime coins, washed them clean and disinfected them.Together with a few sisters-in-law, I made a lot of plump and lovely Yuanbao dumplings with live noodles and dumpling fillings.A total of two pots of dumplings were cooked, and they were served on large plates. As for the children downstairs, it didn’t matter if they wanted to come up to join in the fun. Some sisters-in-law divided the dumplings into small plates and sent them down.
Children don't pay too much attention when they eat. It is very strange for them that a cat will eat dumplings obediently.So Xie Fenghua felt a little more at ease, he could have New Year's Eve dinner with them at the table, and Yin Nan helped him put the dumplings into small plates.
Xie Fenghua doesn't use soy sauce or vinegar to eat dumplings, because they are stuffed with three delicacies, so he prefers to eat the original flavor, and each dumpling contains a delicious shrimp.One bite, the delicious soup splashes out, the taste is simply amazing.
When they heard that eating money dumplings would bring good luck, the children ate desperately, hoping that they could eat money dumplings.However, there were only eight coins wrapped in total, and they were divided into two groups. Yin Minghui was so full that he didn't eat a single coin dumpling.On Xie Fenghua's side, as soon as he ate the third dumpling, he saw a silver round thing in the stuffing instead of the shrimp he wanted to eat.Xie Fenghua pulled the thing out with his small tongue, ho!Sure enough, it was a dime!
"Meow! Meow meow meow meow~!"
Eat money dumplings!Xie Fenghua cried out excitedly, showing people the coin on his dish.Yin Nan took a sip of beer, gently helped the little ancestor wipe off the soup hanging on his beard, then took the coin from the bowl to one side, and continued to put a dumpling for Xie Fenghua in it. "That's great, I've eaten money dumplings, keep going."
--Hum hum!Of course we must continue to eat!
This feeling as if he had won a big prize made Xie Fenghua very happy, and he continued to eliminate the dumplings on the dish.Who knew that after taking this bite, he bit into something hard, which made his teeth ache.Xie Fenghua was startled, and hurriedly bit open the dumpling wrapper and began to pull out the filling. Another coin was pulled out by him, and it turned out to be another money dumpling!
"Meow——!" I have eaten money dumplings again! !
Xie Fenghua ate seven or eight dumplings before and after, but he actually made him eat two money dumplings!Satisfied, Xie Fenghua got off the table with his swollen belly and lay down on Yin Nan's lap to digest.
"I can't do it anymore, you guys continue." Yin Minghui clutched his stomach and moved to the sofa with difficulty. He ate nearly half of the plate of dumplings, and he didn't eat a single dumpling when his stomach burst.Seeing that all the cats raised by his cousin had been eaten, Yin Minghui could only whimper. "Even a cat has European ancestry, Africans can't live anymore, QAQ"
Zhang Yan squinted at him, then shook her head silently.Obviously, the kid Yin Minghui is still too young to see that this is a secret operation.The money dumplings that the kitten ate were all picked by Yin Nan. That guy's eyes are poisonous. Every year, the money dumplings can't escape his chopsticks.If you want to say who this Yin Nan likes, he really spoils him to death. Even if it is a cat, he has to give it money dumplings to make it happy.
Zhang Yan ate the New Year's Eve dinner purely to fill his stomach, so he turned a blind eye to Yin Nan's tricks and pretended not to see them.The two coins that Xie Fenghua ate were washed by Yin Nan and put them in his wallet for safekeeping. It was already past eleven o'clock, and after the New Year's Eve dinner, the children were so sleepy that they all went to sleep. Xie Fenghua, who was already so sleepy that his eyelids were clenched, still insisted on brushing Weibo with his kitten's claws to drive away his sleepiness.
On this day, fans saw that Xie Fenghua, who hadn't been active for several days, sent a lot of tweets.
Xie Fenghua: I am very lucky today, I ate two money dumplings, and I will make a fortune in the new year!How can this be done hahahahaha!
Crab Fenghua: The dumplings stuffed with three delicacies are delicious!Shrimp special Q bomb!
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Yin Nan wanted to pull Xie Xiaomiao into bed for him to sleep, who knew that this guy was obviously sleepy but still held his phone and didn't let go.
"Aren't you sleeping yet?"
"Meow meow……"
"Want to watch the year?"
"Meow meow meow!"
"..."
Seeing that Xiaomiao nodded in a very humane way, Yin Nan smiled helplessly and had to stay up all night with him.
The TV in the living room was turned off, and it was approaching midnight, and the countdown to the Spring Festival Gala began: "Ten, nine, eight, seven...three, two, one!!"
The host's blessing came from the TV, and clusters of fireworks exploded in the distance outside the window.The sound of firecrackers also sounded at the beginning of zero, and gradually increased.It was at this moment that the kitten that insisted on checking Weibo suddenly changed back into a human form. He held Yin Nan's face in his hands, lowered his head, and lightly touched Yin Nan's lips without any lust. a kiss.
Yin Nan raised his head and looked at Xie Fenghua, his golden eyes seemed to have a faint light, and his eyes were full of sincerity.Yin Nan heard him leaning into her ear and saying, "Thank you for everything you have done for me, happy new year..."
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